Something about me at this point in time.......

Being a single mother as well as working full-time to two young children for the last four years it was and it is still not easy.

How I ended my marriage of 10 years with my ex-husband was due to physical and verbal abusive to my kids and myself. This divorce is making me pessimistic. It’s been four years struggle in court for the legal matter for the matrimonial house and children custody as well as access. Since three years ago my ex-husband also wants to fight for full-custody of my two young kids. Till now I’m asking myself, am I doing it right or wrong for leaving the marriage?

Last weekend while I was still dilemma with the right and wrong issue someone said that my ex-husband been giving me hard time while in marriage and now in divorce he also want to give me hard time. I was being advice too to be careful in my communication and also the posting I post online as well as my life to keep it in private until the divorce officially end worried that at this time he might bring mischief in the maintenance.

It’s has been years of ups and downs for me and my kids, but through it all, God remains faithful and I'm looking forward by God’s grace - God have and will triumph and may you and your loved ones always be triumphant in the Lord!

Eve of Lunar New Year

Today is the last day of the year in Chinese calender 岁次 2009 乙丑 4706 (Ji-Chou - Year of the Ox)is 13 February. Late in the late morning my kids and myself going to have our first reunion meal with my 2nd aunt and her family. In the evening we will have reunion dinne we are having steamboat.